I hear you say how much you like this T but I would have some serious problems with her. I don't understand why you are tip-toeing around her like it's all about your T. I thought your sessions were supposed to be about you and your needs? Not dancing around how your T feels. You are not abusing your T, you sound respectful to me. I also don't like how you mentioned that your T is trying to "teach" you that "you can't always get what you want". Excuse me but this sounds outrageous. What makes her think you always get what you want? If that were the case, would you even need therapy? You are enduring numerous issues in your life no? Is that getting what you want? This sounds bizarre to me and I'm sorry for you that you feel she is the best you can get but I understand the need to settle. Some help is better than none.