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Originally Posted by hankster
Youre not by any chance aquarius are you?? 3 years in with my current t, i changed my approach too. Its a real turning point. In my case, i quit yelling at him and started listening to him more - in both our cases, it sounds like we're going from monologue to a true dialogue.  |
I'm a virgo.
I really think that if I can just stick to the plan and really tell him I need to be the one to talk, he will respond accordingly. Like the old saying, "you teach people how to treat you". I think I just taught him that I'm gonna sit there like a lump on a log and he might as well try to impart some wisdom.
A dialogue in therapy really sounds nice.