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Originally Posted by Canyon
I'm a virgo.
I really think that if I can just stick to the plan and really tell him I need to be the one to talk, he will respond accordingly. Like the old saying, "you teach people how to treat you". I think I just taught him that I'm gonna sit there like a lump on a log and he might as well try to impart some wisdom.
A dialogue in therapy really sounds nice.
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I think he will respond. I used to tell my t that i felt like he had no preconceived notion of who i was when i came in - so i was free to go whichever way i want. Which was also a nice way of saying he didnt remember stuff! it seems like you havent felt pressured by him, but that he just gave you space to be? And now your need asserts itself.