Hey

Thank you for all your replies. I never thought about the whole T 'reporting' thing.

No, it was never reported. I ended up living with my teacher and my brother and I were already of the CP register.. and had social workers etc..so nothing would have changed if I reported it anyway.

As always, i think discussing all the above points with T would be best - especially the reporting thing.. as yes my brother does live with our Mum. However, their relationship is different (in a good way) and I wouldn't want to sabotage that!