I see (after the fact usually) myself do as Webgobi's wife does...
There are some things I have come to do better with as I age, others I do less well with...
It is very frustrating when I can turn around and see "I've done it again"...
[ I was also told I would amount to nothing, was incompetent etc etc---despite near constant feedback otherwise at work and elsewhere...it didn't help much--well, it did; but deep down, you want those who mean the most to be the supporters... ]