Why can't they get the message about boundaries across in a kinder way so we can learn instead of feeling shamed once again, out of sight out of mind, a nuisance at best, not a good enough mother like the MOO. I feel as if mean T's see this bear coming, suck up to me long enough to manufacture positive transference (so they can be sure of a regular pay check) and then they change the rules and I'm once again out in the grrrrrr

No disrespect to all the good T's out there. I'm from the UK . I know there are good Ts in the UK too.. I think they probably "misdiagnose" me at first and then can't deal with more early traumas. Ugh I should probably delete this. Can anyone relate?