I cried a lot when my T told me she "never wanted to hurt me" while we were working out a rupture in which something she had said had caused me to withdraw. I didn't expect her words or the care and concern they carried. I was used to being less important than other people's goals and plans and if it hurt me, they didn't care. But it was very touching to me that she cared more about me than about her goals and treatment plan.