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Originally Posted by Webgoji
Actually, I don't think that at all. I think you've been hurt and have some open wounds and are guarding yourself closely from being hurt further. I don't always have something useful to add, but at least I can say I'm neither sick nor tired of you.
The only reason you would bring pain to people is because they aren't strong enough to help. It's much easier to hug someone that's already warm and cozy than someone who is still aching and doesn't want touched. If you "go away", you don't do anyone any service; yourself or others.
Hang in there, we'll come around one of these days.  |
Fair enough, you guys may not be sick and tired of me but I think some people are…I've been here a little more than a year and I haven't really solved any of my problems. I think some may have gotten worse.
Like not being able to feel loved in real life and finally when I'm able to achieve that, it's from someone who can never love me more than a friend. I really wish my feelings were on the same level, but they're much stronger, so he can't even comfort me without me feeling worse. Even him hugging me makes me cry, knowing it means something completely different to me than it does to him. And the reason it means something different is mainly me not being good enough to him for it to mean the same. I should just feel lucky that he even wants to still be my friend.
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Originally Posted by Alone & confused
I'm not sick or tired of you! I started this thread to find you & others I have missed in the community. If you need to talk, I'm here for you! Thank you for finding me! All of you are important to me! But it's hard for me to read every thread. Know that you're Not alone as long as I'm here!
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Maybe not on here, but I'm going to be alone in real life for a while. I think I'm going to have to stay away from my group of friends until I get over having feelings for one of them which could be a while. I wonder if they'll notice that I'm gone?