Welcome Andell, see if there is a PFLAG group in your area... they should have a list of resources. I had male friends who adopted two children from China, they joined a support group for adopted children from that country so they could understand their cultrue. Then they formed a group for other GLBT parents who had adopted. I know how difficult it is to raise children being a lesbian. I have raised 5 children all adults38- 18. I have been a lesbian all of my life, you can ask me anything and I will try to answer.
Altheia