RQ, I am so sorry this happened to you. I had a similar experience with a female therapist. She wanted to see my H and talk to both of us. She thought my H was so sweet and so amazing and ended up YELLING at me during the session. For me, it was a deal breaker in the relationship. I already struggle with trust issues and interacting with other women, and I just would not return. I have often thought that I, personally, really dislike the way your T treats you. My heart goes out to you.