I have a 3 year old. I've always had a patience problem but with my anxiety, depressiin and depersonalization being as bad as it is right now I feel like I can't cope. My husband does a lot of the parenting bcause I can't. I get so easily frustrated with him and yell. I'm afraid I will lose control and hurt him. I'm never alone with him though. He's 3. This isn't fair to him. And its killing me. I just want to be a good mom. He's in preschool and I get time to myself. Why am I failing so absolutely miserably?