I've been there, done that. I've brought my DH into two of my sessions before and felt dumped on the entire time too. Nothing like having your T tell your DH just how messed up you are. Plus, it was my safe space and now he had somehow invaded it. I know my T had good intentions bringing my DH into the sessions, but it sure didn't feel that way. He even told my DH he's welcome to join us any time he wants to. I didn't feel the same- still don't and he hasn't been back since. He blindsided me with that comment.

(((Hugs))) I'm sorry it was so difficult for you.