Sorry you seem to be stuck with me for trying to help, and I am doing a pitiful job. Please remember that we are not professionals here, but fellow sufferers.

In order to get an official diagnosis, you will need to be tested by some professional who does that type of thing. I suggest you call some therapists' offices to see if they know someone.

My son was in counseling, and his counselor sent him to a special place for testing. (He did test as ADHD.)

Does that help at all? I am so sorry if it doesn't.....