I agree.

You know, pushing is not what some people need. I thought I need to be pushed into talking about certain topics. It turns out, that really screwed up one therapy relationship.

Don't be afraid to tell your T that pushing doesn't work for you or telling her what does work. It's your therapy - get the most out of it! A simple "I think we're going too fast" would probably be super helpful. Remember, therapists can't read our minds. It's possible she doesn't realize she's pushing you too hard.