Yeah, it set me off a bit. I don't know how to bring up the subject again without seriously upsetting him.

I feel like trying to restrict what he watches when he's alone is a bit too much for any person, especially when it comes to porn. Typically I wouldn't even make an issue about it but it just threw me off, and since then I have done nothing but deeply regret deciding not to watch the video. It's not the first thing I've found like that, there was another video I decided to watch that was a mother, step daughter and boyfriend situation (which really upset me, because the mother looked similar to me and the step daughter very similar to my oldest daughter) I really guess I just want to know if, god knows he's a great guy and I could never assume this, if it is something way more complicated, would there be any other signs?