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Old Feb 19, 2014, 10:49 PM
Yearning0723 Yearning0723 is offline
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Originally Posted by leomama View Post
May I ask what you mean by operationalize yourself?
I think you need to set a boundary with your mentor as your mentor is not supposed to be using you as her therapist!
My mom has never come with me to see my therapist. I just deal with her the best I can, and I do talk about her in therapy, with my partner, and in a 12 step recovery group for adult children.
Operationalize things myself = put my ideas into action on my own.

And re. me being my mentor's therapist, I don't think that's what she's doing, but the issue is that I have no clue what she IS doing, so that's why I feel like I have to ask.