My only friend that wasn't a mutual friend I lost contact with 5 yes ago. My college friends I talk to every now and then but only a hand full of friends really stuck around. I lost most of my college friends when I got pregnant, lost most of my other ones moving around every 2-3 months. All my current friends are use to me falling off the world and popping back up. Some times our best friend will drive the 10 hours if he can't get ahold of either of us for a month but we've done the same. Only 4 people have really stuck by us to the point if you get together its like you never left. Here we have friends but we joke that my husband makes them and I keep them. I'm more "thoughtful" he's more outgoing. I can't seem to make interesting friends w/o him and he has no idea how to keep friends.