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Old Feb 20, 2014, 04:39 AM
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Originally Posted by growlycat View Post
My main T has told me when he is furious with me, but it does help when they say: "I'm only angry because I care. Anger is not possible without emotional investment."
I believe that it is OK for a T to be angry on your behalf, eg if someone hurt you.

I believe that it is OK for a T to be angry if you are hurting yourself.

But if a T is angry with you because of what you said to them, a line has been crossed and they have failed as an empathetic listener.
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