There are a lot of really good replies to this post. I do agree with some of your points. I have been there. You look and realize you got 4 replies, but 100 Views. I don't get it either. But like one poster said, this is a forum filled with people muddling thru their own issues and depressive episodes and are not always in the best state to reply to postings made by other members. All we can do is offer ourselves to be present to one another here when we can and when we're strong enough to be of assistance.