Yeah you basically said the same thing my best friend and my dad said. That regardless of the choice I make, it still wouldnt change their mind about keeping her on. I still cant help but feel guilty about. This is really stressing me out. I am a ticking time bomb and one rough handling away from having a nervous breakdown. And facing her knowing what I know while she still doesnt is killing me. I want to say something so badly, but I know it would probably back fire on me.
I am also terrified of any type of retaliation on her part. I dont think she would stoop so low, but I am afraid that when she finds out she will want to break me down in front of them in some way. Or that she will throw it in my face that I am the reason they are laying her off. My dad insists that when companies do lay offs they look at how long an employee has been working for them first, so if I, the last one to be hired, am the one they arr picking and not her their reasons they must have.

I know she is not the easiest person to deal with all the time, but I cant think of why they would pick me over her or why if I am being given a choice, she cant have the job I dont pick. I think the not knowing why is what is stressing me out the most. If it had to do because of her atitude or the way she carries herself or even if because they cant rely on her because she has family responsabilities that I dont, then I wouldnt feel so terrible because those things I have no influence or control over. But I dont know and I probably will never know.

I really want to ask that IF I were to refuse either offer, could that mean she could get to keep her job, but I dont wqnt them to think that that means I dont want the job.

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