Congrats for being able to open up to him. At one point I told T about something that had happened but had a very hard time doing so. I thanked her for helping through it and told her that I knew she wouldn't judge me but didn't know why it bothered me so much.... She told me it was because it wasn't really about HER judging me but rather ME judging myself and being harsh on myself.... I really wonder if that is really what we all deal with??