Hello! Thank you for your response. I am new on here, and was not sure if I would get a response. I was 17 when I meet my husband, and we was married two months later. We did not have our first child until I was 20, and we lost our twin girls at birth. We had a son two years later, and now we have our three grown children and three young adopted children at home. I feel we have our own little circle of family and do not anyone from outside of our circle in our life at this time. I feel I should have been told of this girl before we was married. I feel lied . I am very angry of not knowing. I do know his family hide this from me.