Wow, that's an intense thing to happen. I think I'd feel very betrayed too. But if your life has been good together all these years, then I think it'd be worth trying to work through. Maybe you guys could do couples therapy? I've never been in that, but individual therapy has worked wonders for me. I'd definitely give that a go if I were in your situation. After all, you've been together a long long time.

Sidony