Ali-your amazing. You know me better than I think I know myself. That is all.

Rabbit, I don't know why you called yourself frightened- seems to me you have strength and wisdom beyond everything.

I appreciate all the actual advice. I don't mean to sound ungrateful to the shrink, to be fair, I am so used to playing councillor among my friends, family, clients etc- that if someone starts talking, I automatically turn into the sympathetic ear. It was jut really frustrating because I wanted to get it off my chest and hear (as I had from you guys) that it was the right decision.

Many hugs,thanks and kisses to you both Xx