Pretty much anything anyone says to try to convince me to feel other than I do pisses me off. All I need you to do is listen, I don't need input as to how to not feel the way i'm feeling because unless you're dealing with it you have no idea.

newgal2, to be honest I just think your husband was joking a little and didn't mean that at all in a serious sense. I've said things like that to ex's in the past who were dealing with things but I really was just joking, but they got a bit mad. I didn't understand the trigger until I was dealing with it myself. His second statement should get him some credit back