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Originally Posted by Perna
Do you two talk about her mother and her death at all? Maybe it would help a little if you got a male therapist so your daughter would not have to unconsciously "worry about" if she got close to another female, they would die like her mother. This is Just off the top of my head; my mother died and I had to deal with it in therapy; there's a lot of unconscious stuff that goes on that can take a long time to work with and treat. I would try to do a heart-to-heart talk with your daughter, see if she can help you help her? It has to be very difficult for you too, I imagine  but if the two of you can help each other a little, be there/present for each other, that would be what I would want. |
She's been to a male therapist. She said she hates him so I switched her to a female therapist. She said she hates females too. She said females lie and hurt her. She said she doesn't get along with them. We do talk about her mom from time to time. I told her we can go visit her grave but she said her mom isn't dead and dead people can come back to life.