I don't believe I'm judging you, I am expressing how a collection of words makes me feel. As for not knowing how many issues you are facing DITTO. Since December mommy dearest blocked access to my inheritance because she is a vindictive *****, I lost my job because my life was so chaotic that I could not focus on my job. I got evicted by my SOB landlord who didn't have the decency to be slightly flexible with the rent. This was in spite of the fact that he was holding $4000 of my money as deposit and last month which he has yet to return. That was all the money I had and my choice was to move in the back of my car in Colorado winter, or god knows what else. I called my ex-in laws and they were not too happy with me moving in. I found a new place to live, I made a math mistake and was short $200. My new landlady wanted to evict me over the $200 and after I had paid with money I don't have for movers to move my things, they forgot my entire kitchen and I lost some very expensive items to the SOB. Then I applied for an IT job which had been offered in the past. This time I didn't get it because I didn't have time to prep and it was plain as daylight that had emotional issues going on. Who wants to hire someone like me. And how could I forget, TMobile cannot seem to understand the term "cancel my order" so they sent my new phone god knows where and they are refusing to fix it. I've been a customer for 11 years, you'd think I deserve a bit more respect.
You may have your issues, and I respect them, they are very important to you. At the same time, most all of us here have issues and they are all extremely important issues to us. You may not care that I was almost living in my car, I was extremely concerned.
All I'm asking is that you be a bit more respectful especially when you write "I'm so done with trying to reach out to people on here and not get anything back". In my mind think oh oh suicidal possibility, then when I read it, and find the same post on three other threads it makes me angry because to me it does appear like you are taking advantage of a peer group and not offering anything in return.
Thanks for reading