I do not feel she was judging you or being rude. I think that she was giving you an honest view on how the post came across to her. When you post in a forum like this you are open to all sorts of opinions and feedback.You are not required to agree with her or anyone. To reject opinions you don't like as rude or judgmental only closes the door to honest and frank discussions going forward.

The truth is everybody struggles with a lifetime of communication challenges. Not everybody "hears" things the same way. If she interpreted it that way somebody else probably did too. If you are interested in your message through that is valuable information to have. I appreciate that kind of feedback.

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