Thank you guys. Your advice is keeping me sane. We got our termination letters today but she still doesn't know about the talks I will have about what job I want. I don't want to break it to her until the last possible minute, and I know it's dishonest but I want her to believe that (whenever they ask to speak to me) that it will be the first time I am hearing it.
I am probably doing wrong playing along that I am too upset over being laid off, but I dunno what other way to save her unnecessary rage and save me some peace and sanity until tomorrow is over at least. I just really hope my bosses aren't expecting me not to say anything or to be the one to say to her "oh yeah, that letter I got? The one exactly like yours? Yeah doesn't apply to me because they are asking me to stay".
Granted my dad said they did something similar to his job when the company closed down. They told everyone they were closing that Friday,and when Friday came they approached a select few of employees asking them if they would like to stay on for a while longer. So my situation wouldn't totally be unheard of.