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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
As she's 17, and hates being in therapy, it might be best to let her end therapy for now. Unless she's doing something really dangerous and hurtful. But it might help with your own relationship with her, because once she hits 18 she's going to quit anyway. If you give her permission to stop now, and encourage her to seek help on her own, then she might view that as a kindess (vs a potential "you always made me do that" that she might have if she keeps having to be in therapy).
I can see why she would turn down the T's offers though - she probably views it as fake and an attempt to buy her off really. If she had met the T and that's just always how the T did therapy then it might be different for her.
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Thanks for the advice red panda. My D knows I love her and want the best for her. I know it's a long term process. I don't want her carrying this around forever. I'm just concerned for her. I never would've thought T's gestures toward my daughter would come off as fake. It's all starting to make sense to me.My D has a really wonderful therapist and i hope she isn't taking things personally with my D. I'm going to try to keep her in therapy to at least come to terms with her mothers death.