Thanks for your replies :-)

I just wish I knew what kind of behaviour is "normal" and what isn't. I have ADHD and when I talk to people about the symptoms so many say " I am like that" and "I do that". But I don't think they get the severity of the symptoms....yeah ok you get distracted...that doesn't mean you have ADHD. So I am just questioning now so much of my behaviour...is it "normal" or is it borderline?