I am a 19 year old college boy and just recently went through somewhat of a break up. The relationship was not super long or serious, but it was the closest I had gotten to a serious girlfriend. (not just friends with benefits, etc.) Before and during the relationship, I was really happy and confident in myself (from looks to personality). Now that we broke up, I look at myself and I feel inadequate, less good looking, and just overall unconfident in myself and who I am. I'm definitely not naturally happy. I don't know if it's the weather, the break up, or if I just really am not as "great" as I thought I was before. I used to feel like the life of the party and that girls always wanted to talk to me and looked at me. Now I look around and self-consciously compare myself to other people. Am I just having a confidence issue, or am I actually less attractive than I thought? How can i build myself back up to the stud that I once was that felt very happy to be me before all of this?