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Originally Posted by keeprolling
Well. As I see it, you kind of already rejected her so really it's what matters more to you, your friendship with the girl or the possibility of rejection and your other friends opinions. Everyone grumps about friends that they spend a long time with. Small things they do slowly become major irritators but that's because we're all different. I'm sure your other friends will understand.
I mean, personally if it were one of my favorite friends I would apologize and try because my friendships mean a lot to me and even if you get rejected it's not like that would change what it is currently. The possibility of rekindling a friendship vs 100% not friends. I would take the chance any day!
I would urge you to make the decision soon because it's obviously stressing you out.
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Yeah it is kinda, it pops into my head from time to time constantly questioning myself about it. I have NEVER ended a friendship before but then again she's probably the only friend I've kept around for this long so it felt weird to me.
I want to try and make it work again but as soon as I opened up a messenger and saw her name I just flaked out. I spent a few minutes trying to bring up the urge, "Brave face....brave face.....brave face...." I kept muttering to myself but as soon as the chatbox came up.....I flaked out....
I know the possibility of rejection is here but at this point I don't want to make it seem like I was messing with her emotions really, I didn't want to seem like a guy who manipulates. I don't know how to come back after being gone for weeks when I ended it, I mean how do you bounce back from something like that? What if she's just waiting to see if I'm serious about this or not? I mean I left off a message that made it seem like I didn't care when we ended it, "Bye, it's been some real stuff. I mean goodbye" was the last thing I told to her because I didn't know what the hell else to say.
I really just don't know how to come back from this.....