Oh, no…P66, there are T's that really do care!!! It can be devastating to start over….I had to years ago during the worst period of my life and I can understand feeling like it isn't "worth it" to try again.

Do you have any way of contacting your old T and asking advice on the situation? Maybe he and his "friend" had a falling out and it contributed to her shift in attitude?

Please reach out to someone who can help ASAP. Someone else's greed shouldn't dictate if you live or die.