I 'get' what you are saying. It is all a matter of perspective. and also 'garbage in' garbage out...if you spend all your time looking at what is wrong well then that is all you will see isn't it? We need balance...it is a delicate thing...are we being irresponsible not striving to better ourselves and change? or are we holding ourselves back by keeping our focus on 'If only I did this" and not celebrating "Look I did this!!" What good is it to climb a mountain if you don't take time to enjoy the view along the way?