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Old Feb 21, 2014, 10:05 AM
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Don't take the blame for destroying his life. He was abused in the past and can't handle close relationships. It was his choice to leave the relationship. I don't see any reason to blame yourself. He will be in pain until he chooses to get help. It's up to him. You can't make someone happy if they are not willing to help themselves. Forgive youself and move on.
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