I'm so sorry!! This sounds like "certain people" in my family! Went through the same thing with both of my grandparents & Still don't talk them today because of their greed. It's sad how times like this can bring out the worst in people! Instead of grieving with the family, mine was fighting over "pots & pans" while the rest of us were mourning the loss. Again, I'm sorry for all you're going though!