Iam...... So you don't like kissing, big deal. Not everyone does. I am very much stright, and VERY very much hate kissing. I have been married 18 years and I have only kissed my H maybe 10 times in 18 years. I would rather kiss a dog, I would rather let a dog eat ice cream out of my mouth, I just do not like kissing. It is gross, weird, nasty, not appealing to me at all.

It is not so much the act of kissing, it is the emotional connection behind it for me. I don't connect that way with others. Connections with others scare me. I just simply don;t connect with others in any physical way.

So you are not the only one who doesn't like kissing. And that has nothing to do with finding a mate. My H has learned to do quite well with out kissing.