Bpdtransformation,
What you shared made alot of sense to me. I come from a very emotionally abusive home. Luckily I've set firm boundaries with my parents who abused me. I find it so enlightening that you talk of transference. I think I do that alot and I do projections all the time. It's so ingrained in me to assume others are judging me. I just try and fake it till I make it. I don't consciously try and manipulate others. But as you stated projective identification sounds familiar. I get better with age but with all the therapy I've had I've still got "leftovers" from the lack of love I received as a child. The abuse was daily and my brain easily goes into fight or flight responses alot. The danger is mostly imagined and dbt helped me with that too. Thank you for taking the time to write me. I'll keep up the good fight to live rather Than Just survive. ♡

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