bronnie I have the same EXACT thing. I thought for sure I was a one of a kind lol. and as to the willingness......not always. if I understand correctly , it isn't that you actually see someone else brush your teeth but feel like another entity has stepped inside you and is moving you about and talking to you simultaneously. when I slit my wrists I was taken over by one of these. I was present watching it unfold but "seemed" to be at the mercy of the "handler". as if what I was doing was ok....normally watching yourself take a knife to the bathroom and having "that" conversation might be startling.....not at all. so please be careful about agreeing to let them take over movements. there are certainly times I have allowed it to happen that such a release of control felt beautiful and alleviated me. not sure why. it is the most astonishing feeling to have your body move as if you were just an observer.