Just stopped in to see how you are doing.

Your very best friend is your intuition. Rely on that. You have some opinions from here but it can be a little overwhelming and it sometimes can cause you to be even more confused than you thought you were....

If I was in your position, I would file this information and the whole situation away in the back of your mind....Perhaps just mention that, since you are a mom, that genre is extremely uncomfortable and you would appreciate if he would avoid it.

Do your girls know about the "no-no square"? It's not scary like a lot of things to do with this topic can be.

Hugs to you.