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Originally Posted by Yearning0723
It actually isn't about being gay. Ironically, that's the one thing she's fine with.
So okay, I agree a session with T might not be the way to go. But then what do I do? I can't take back all those thoughts and feelings we put out there. Those thoughts and feeling are still there and I can't just pretend those words were never spoken. Pretending the past never happened obviously hasn't worked so well up to this point. So I can't just do nothing and try to move on and forget.
Can I???
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So what if what is going on is this: She cant forgive herself for what she did. Its always in the back of her mind. Thats why she doesnt want to go to a t - shes afraid she would have to admit it. It is an inefficient way of dealing with her guilt but it "works" - she just dumps the guilt on you. You cant really process it because its not yours! You can try to carry it around with you but it will weigh you down. So ask yourself - are you going to limit yourself because of your mothers limitations?