It can be. It can also be hard. Some people...ok a lot of people are somehow bothered by people who are different and don't follow the uniform conformity code. Screw them

They aren't going to impress you. I'm going to assume we're talking about celebrities. Sorry if that's condescending.
Paul Newman and Robert Redford. Talented and famous actors but genuinely good people who made a strong effort to make the world a better place.
Warren Beatty. Nobody should be that good looking. It's unnatural lol.
Steve McQueen. The definition of cool.
James Dean. No explanation necessary.
Sorry they're all from different eras but there aren't people like that now. Your generation (and mine) are full of posers, angsty posers, and people who try too hard to ever really be cool.