hi I have written on here before can everyone please help me figure him out. My dr I have seen for 20 yrs I have seen 3x or 2x a wk he always txed me and called me for over two yrs he called me wherever I was or txed me all night then he stops bc his wife was trash talking me, but that's nothing new she has been talking behind my back for 8 yrs the staff all tell me. my dr doesn't let me talk to anyone patients people out front nobody when I get in the office this girl is supposed to take my bp he always comes and gets me gets my pocketbook my coat and phone and says lets go. the girl says I gonna do her bp he says no and then tells me come on. I used to talk to the receptionist nice woman we were very friendly and she said he sure has something for u he wont take any of your cancellations he tells us u have to call his cell all this stuff has been going on for yrs I try to put up with it bc now im on medicare and its hard to find a dr on medicare, he has told me to go to naranon meetings I did then stopped bc my daughter who took her life had a drug problem, I told him how painful it is to hear someones child is getting married having a baby and my child is dead I told himit depressed me more. so he got furious said I don't listen puts me in hospital has them take all my clothes including underwear and says he is punishing me for not listening I was shocked and heartbroken I lost my son to suicide also he knows my hear is broken, well like 8 months ago he wants me to go to these dbt classes in a bad neighborhood I didn't wanna go, and he says im not borderling but have suicidality ok so I don't go bc I suggest to him at the nearby hospital they have dbt could I go there, anything I suggest is no, so bacl to his wife she hates my guts I have never done anything to her except try to be nice well she thinks I should be fine by now after losing two children to suicide im heartbroken she suggests isee another dr in his practice and him once a wk him once a wk the other guy well I say I don't wanna rehash my whole life with another dr its to painful so that idea was gone, so six more months go by and I forgot something important I gained like 0 lbs from this drug serogueol which I am trying to take off I know him for 10 yrs he always says im attractive he likes me ect ect well I know he don't like the weight gain he always bugs me to get it off which im trying but my throid isn't working right but he wont allow me to take meds for it bc he said it will make my heart race, ok almost done, two wks ago he txs me and I tx him back u aren't my md get off my back about my weight u are depressing me more, he says he is my md and heis furious so we have a pretty good session tues then thurs I go in and he says to me I want you to talk to someone else in the office on Thursdays and see me on Tuesdays I said why, he says he wants me to have another person to talk to, I say why cant I just come to u once a wk I don't feel like going to a stranger and rehashing my life, so this is the kicker, he says u go see him or u don't see me and u don't get your meds, I say that's blackmail I said im not doing it, plus I was very hurt bc I sware he has changed since I gained the weight except for he wont let me to talk to anyone he always grabs my pocketbook coat phone and walks off and expects me to follow, well he has my ph so I do, this is crazy I think he says if u don't go see the other guy then u cant come to me or get meds so I say I quit and leave it at that I tell him off leave. later he calls me and says this is what he wants and he is going on a two wk vacation bc he is burned out bc he hadda take this nurse practicniers patient plus his own over bc she quit <patients. well anyway I email him after not sleeping at all that night and tell him holding my meds over my head is blackmail and telling me if I don't do what he say I don't go to him so I cant get my meds so I tell him imgoing to my family dr to see if he can help me with meds and he doesn't like that and says I wanna see u the next two Thursdays im delaying leaving till Friday so I can see u thurs in the meantime I want u to see the other guy while im gone but he wants this to continue when he comes back, honestly do u have any idea why he is doing this bc he don't want me to guit but I know he wants me to see this other guy on Mondays , he calls me again and is in a happy mood saying look I wont u to come in mon and see mike and then see me thurs do u think he is trying to get rid of me or trying to keep control over me or do uthinked he is burned out my daughter in law thinks he is a control freal she always thought he was wrong for calling and txing me and making all special rules for me other than his other patients and I never thought this, she thinks he is being dominant grabbing my pocketbook coat and ph I thought he was being a gentlemen my sister has been telling me to leave him since this is his practice does he get pd the medicare for me on Thursdays when he sees me and Mondays when mike sees me or would mike get the medicare on Mondays I am so hurt and angry and confused please can everyboby give me their opinion I cant sleep im thinking of quiting I feel its blackmail I also know he really wants me to lose this weight do u think its that his wife medicare or he is burnt out or he wants to get rid of me please be honest bc I rather leave now if that were his intention but he swares it isn't he says lets try it I just deel like not showing up Monday I really don't wanna talk about my son and daughter and their deaths all over again it hurts me, what would u people do. thanks in advance I need answers thanks baby boy