I agree, you probably won't need to repeat all your history, should be, in your charts, which need to be shared. He could be burnt out, if wife is talking bad about you, stands to reason, perhaps about others as well, and then there's the question of marital burnout to go along with the career burnout. I'd take a second doctor, from that office, just to ensure that you have someone to turn to, for your meds, in case, g-d forbid, this one don't work out.
And not nitpicking, but to be perfectly honest, as I feel you may be able to get more replies this way, on these types of forums, just space out the sentences a few at a time, like I am, right here. Just easier to read over. Not you, it happens often, with newer posters on these types of forums. If you can't edit, perhaps a PM to a mod, to ask for spacing.