I see no shaming of narcissism directly in this thread whatsoever. I asked a question regarding whether or not this looked like NPD

As I do not know if she is, it would be improper to assert a role of "caregiver"

It says nothing about having to have the disorder itself.

I don't see a breach, and I felt the need to talk about it. If it offends you, report it or please do not read.