OP very much was discriminatory and ageist in her opening post. That is why it was rather funny in one of the more recent posts when someone suggested that OP make comments trying to make this man more responsible, whatever it meant to the poster, in front of his children. Wait, the youngest of these children for sure would not have been born had his parents reached out to OP for family planning advice! And still she gets to have a say in how this child is raised, who and how acts as the child's role model, etc. Come on, let the child's parents decide how and what to do, as long as nothing criminal is happening.