Why not pick the one that "fits" the best and the issues you most want to work on? Unless these doctors spent more then an hour with you I wouldn't trust any diagnosis. Personal bias. It's really about getting help for the issues you want get better at dealing with.
When I tell somebody about my "diagnosis" it goes something like… "not really sure. It's within the range of depression, ADHD, bipolar. I've even been called BPD before. I really don't think bipolar or BPD is right but I do think something along the autism spectrum fits. The only one I am really sure about is depression. I really hate those labels, don't you?" They usually agree with me

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