Babyboy, nice to see you again. So sorry your situation is still the same
Honestly, I don't think your T behaved badly. You were highly SUI and the out of session contact was needed to keep you out of hospital. Just my 2cents, I wasn't there...
Now I'm a bit at a loss, what would you want? You say you don't want him as your T yet you don't seem to look for another T and when he, himself, offered another T you are even angrier
Can't it be that in fact you're hurt because you think he stopped the "special" treatment because of your weight gain?

Only you can decide which treatment (if any) and from whom you want. 10yr is a long time to go to one T and it might be a good idea to get a second opinion and have s.o. as a backup should this T really burnout.