Thanks Costello! What is it about being adopted? My brother suffered some physical abuse for about a year, but my sister was removed at a few weeks old so she was never abused...I do wonder how much she's learnt from him over the years though. I wonder if she'd be half as bad if we'd just had her. Idk, I suppose it's pointless to wonder cos it's done now. Got to focus on how to make our lives bearable until they move out!